tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19312567.post872659951016911374..comments2024-01-11T00:28:08.521-05:00Comments on Caregivingly Yours, MS Spouse Caregiver: care facility era: 5th anniversaryAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14000299655117252000noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19312567.post-28517931489945368972009-03-17T01:13:00.000-04:002009-03-17T01:13:00.000-04:00I like what both Indigo and Mary said; very wise w...I like what both Indigo and Mary said; very wise women they both are<BR/><BR/>I think it was the safest thing to do to keep everyone safe although I imagine it was a very hard decision <BR/><BR/>bettybettyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06323135450742337670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19312567.post-71808326559436503222009-03-16T19:19:00.000-04:002009-03-16T19:19:00.000-04:00There are a lot of things the two of you have lost...There are a lot of things the two of you have lost along the way, but none of them are your fault, or hers. <BR/><BR/>I felt like the BIGGEST FAILURE in the world as a daughter when my Dad wanted to live in a facility, but begrudgingly, over time, I've come to realize in many ways it was for the best, for HIS BEST. I still hate it, always hated it, but that was/is an emotional problem not a factual problem.<BR/><BR/>Your wife is loved, she matters, she is appreciated and well-treated and valued while many other people are pushed aside. <BR/>You won, she won. ~MaryAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19312567.post-40085935724141192842009-03-16T12:15:00.000-04:002009-03-16T12:15:00.000-04:00You still won Patrick. Your compassion and love he...You still won Patrick. Your compassion and love helped you let go so Patti could be in the best environment for her. It takes a bigger man to let go of his ego and see the comfort of someone else as a priority. (Hugs)IndigoSage Ravenwoodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17143502548162174269noreply@blogger.com