Reading another AOL Journal, SIMPLY READ, I noticed an entry about “becoming your parents.”
Yesterday I received in the mail Guidelines: School Sponsored Dances from our daughter’s high school. Some excerpts:
Alcohol Screening Devices: Students who choose to attend school dances will be subject to spot checks for the presence of alcohol. … If the screening device indicates the presence of alcohol the student(s) will be referred to the local police.
Dress / Dance: Students must be appropriately dressed for a school sponsored event. Dancing that is lewd or sexually explicit will not be permitted.
The Rydell High School dance scene from “Grease” would be in jeopardy under these ‘guidelines’. <grin>
Alcohol is a legal issue and not debatable. If ‘spot checks’ deter one high school age driver from driving under the influence I applaud the idea.
The other problems challenge school administrations every where. However I can’t think of anything more inflammatory to the teenage ‘rebel spirit’ than a subjective rule about dress and dancing. School Boards seem to like to beat drums.
I found myself reminiscing about my own high school years. In those days I graduated from a ‘segregated’ high school. Dance concerns were about the “wrong kind of music” and the advent of anti-war music (Viet Nam) and peace symbols in decorations <grin>. I couldn’t resist pushing the late 60's jukebox button for Buffalo Springfield’s “For What It’s Worth”:
“There's something happening here
What it is ain't exactly clear …
There's battle lines being drawn
Nobody's right if everybody's wrong
Young people speaking their minds
Getting so much resistance from behind"
Maybe becoming a parent or simply surviving too many years, you can now “see” the bigger picture. Fortunately, high school is only a “blink” in the timeline of anyone’s life.
Hi Patrick, So glad you enjoyed my entry. Raising the teens brings back fine memories of when we were young and making our way in this world.
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