Entwining their arms they
share a toast ... somewhere, just not in this story.
Instead I reach over to
help Patti hold her adult sippy cup so she can enjoy her hot chocolate. Taking
a sip of my own mocha I realize hey I’m drinking from an adult sippy cup too.
Maybe this whole disposable coffee cup thing is really just about preparing us
all for the adult sippy cup era ahead.
Curiosity got me Googling -
paper cups have been around since the beginning of the 20th Century
but let’s face it lids were the quantum leap forward when in 1967 Alan Frank of
Philadelphia filed a patent for the first tearable vented plastic lid for
coffee.
So with recent temperatures
nearer 40˚F
(4.4˚C) we stopped by Sheetz “Specialty Coffeez Expresso Bar” for Patti’s
favorite ‘dark chocolate hot chocolate’. Not only can we get affordable
specialty coffee and hot chocolate but Sheetz may be the most convenient stop
on the planet. Convenience trumps when you are a caregiver and their accessible
parking, even van accessible parking, is welcoming not an afterthought.
Depending on whether we’re
heading home for an outing or how Patti’s MS fatigue is doing I may transfer
her hot chocolate to a travel mug that has become perfect for her for both hot
and cold beverages. As a designer travel mug it’s a perfect disguise for an
adult sippy cup and there are times the handle grip is most helpful for her.
Straws once were a cornerstone
but MS progression with decline of eye hand coordination, increasing visual
impairment and simply problems associated with the muscle control involved in sipping
through a straw has made them increasingly obsolete. Summers ago I wrote an
entry, immunity to ‘brain freeze’?, of Patti inhaling frozen drinks. This past
summer she struggled to use a straw much less hold a drink.
Sure somewhere a couple
entwines arms and toasts and somewhere else one person reaches over and helps
hold another’s cup. The end result is the same, a smile.
Caregivingly Yours, Patrick
Leer
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Sharing the trial and error learned lessons of a MS spouse caregiver / carer about family, home care, and transition to the care facility era from 22 years of living with Multiple Sclerosis as a family ... and caregiver's recent lung cancer diagnosis and surgery.


and don't they say a smile is worth a thousand words?? Brrr though that it is 40 and only October!! Where you in the area that got the early snow that I saw on the news yesterday when I was at the gym?
ReplyDeletehot cocoa is the best though on a cold day! especially with lots of whipped cream.....
stay warm!!!
betty
Patrick, you're such a romantic! Patti is a lucky woman, and your posts often remind me that I am, too. Thank you for this.
ReplyDeleteThank you ladies! It all comes down to do unto others ...
ReplyDeleteEvery day you help her with things that keep her dignity, fun, & Life intact...as best as you can. And you laugh at what cannot be done, or better done. Pefect. ~Mary
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