Nothing
ever prepared me for people helping me. It is a quantum change that frankly has
humbled me.
Since my single and brief episode of syncope last week my daughter restricts my driving. While
medical science may not totally back her restrictions, she did after all
witness her Dad go from standing and talking in one moment to laying on the
floor the next.
A common
sense return to driving was the approach advocated by my neurologist, as lung
cancer metastatic lesions in the brain can trigger dizziness, falls, etc. Meds and
of course radiation therapy are in theory shrinking metastasis with each
treatment and as a result reducing pressure on brain functions.
She did
let me drive to Loew’s Saturday morning. I was beyond impressed as somehow she
arranged a simulation exercise in their parking lot. As I pulled into the
parking lot an outdoor forklift bolted out of the blue spilling a couple dozen
large bags of mulch immediately in front of me. I stopped on a dime and frankly
sat there smiling like the cat that ate the canary watching them work.
Sooo it
was not only our Sunday family tradition but a treat when my daughter offered to
pick Patti up from her care facility for a finger food fest at home featuring mozzarella
sticks, fried pickles, shrimp basket, chicken tenders and breaded mushrooms
from JoJo’s Pizza.
Finger
foods of varying shapes and textures somehow empower Patti to self-feed and safely feel a bit more independent.
Somehow
we just have to stop watching NBC’s “Hannibal” on FIOS Demand with dinner. Tonight
a guy driven by brain metastasis becomes a psycho serial killer while Hannibal ponders
if eating someone with lung cancer is ethical even sensitive. Personally I was getting
more than concerned about Patti and Megan’s rapt attention to the show. :) The camera caught Patti's focus and believe me she rarely has such laser beam focus from decades of MS visual impairment and cognitve symptoms. Then again Hannibal Lechter in any incarnation is someone you keep track of. :)
Whatever
… it was family time, we laughed, enjoyed ourselves on a georgeous 64°F (17.7°C) perfect MS friendly late afternoon and had fun … that is what family should be all about even when I cannot be the catalyst.
“Our
prime purpose in this life is to help others.” Dalai Lama XIV
Patrick Leer
Health Activist:
Caregivingly Yours, MS Caregiver @ http://caregivinglyyours.blogspot.com/
My Lung Cancer Odyssey @ http://lung-cancer-survivor.blogspot.com/
As my husband suffers from syncope also, I am well aware of the perils of this condition. His seems to happen when he overdoes and gets tired. It is always scary.Thank goodness for your daughter.
ReplyDeleteMegan has become transcendant! As for syncope don't go letting her hear you talk about it. :) Lung cancer metastasis is enemy #1 believed to be the culprit. God willing zappings will resolve more than syncope.
DeleteSounds like a great Sunday, even with the minor changes. Hope your treatments will make you well again.
ReplyDeletePeace,
Muff
Thanks Muff, I am in this to win.
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